Seeking Female to end my almost three year drought! - London

Yes...you read that right. I'm a 52 year old caucasian guy, fit, handsome, polite, friendly with a huge social life, hobbies and a brilliant career. Although my marriage is brilliant and in almost every repect it's perfect, we are not intimate. We lost that years ago (well, I did) but we stay together because we have a very good and frankly priveledged life. I've had affairs the last of which ended in November 2023. Since that time, I've not been intimate with anyone. Oh, sure I could hire and escort but I've never done that and it just doesn't feel right for me. Here's the thing...I'm 5'5". While it's never bothered me, women generally are seeking the "tall dark and handsome"...perhaps muscle, younger, tattoos...bad boy type. Either way, I'm not either. I'm a fairly buttoned up type of guy, can be formal, but have spent my career in work that demands respect, trust and the utmost diplomacy and discretion. I dress very well and extremely well groomed and presented and I'm not an ugly guy. Yes, I even have all my own teeth (that's a joke... I'm a solid build, no beer belly, blonde, look after my body and what I eat. I've very experienced having lived a fairly adventurous life with FF, F, MF, MMFF...you get the picture. And, my height is no reflection of my "size". I think you'll be impressed. It's not huge but I'm larger than adverage, get unspeakable hard. So, here is what I'm seeking. A female, fun, outgoing, polite, respectful and perhaps cultured. I have Fri-Tue August 21 - 25 totally free and was thinking of getting a hotel room in central London (I live fairly centrally, already) on one of those days. Maybe enjoy lunch or dinner, cocktails and well, you get the rest, I'm sure. Naturally, it's "on me". You'll find me extremely personable and very much a gentleman. I tend to be the guy in the centre of the room, socialising or ensuring that eveyone is involved in conversation. I was brought up to be a gentleman to everyone, not just women. I'm obsessively clean, smell good and definitely not rushed to get to the hotel or, once there, get into bed. I much prefer slow and methodical and I much prefer to give than to receive. Although the latter is lovely, I want to give you my full attention. Oh, and I don't really have a "type". I tend to connect with the person in a social sense and let the chemistry come from that. So, what do you think? Something that might interest you? All very safe and sane. No pressure and certainly no expectations. Just because we have cocktails and maybe dinner, I don't have the expectation that things carry on from there. This has to work both ways. Respect for each other. What's the worse that can happen? We have a lovely dinner, wine, cocktails, good conversation and we go home having met a good people and enjoyed your evening. We're perhaps not a fit, sexually. That's ok. We I tried. Please, no drunks. I enjoy drinking but we should all be in control. Yes, this is totally genuine. Crazy huh? A